Lauren Barrett

Toddler tantrums are inevitable. I have talked about this before.

And there are lot of strategies out there on how to handle tantrums, but did you know that there are different stages to a toddler’s tantrum and not every strategy works at every stage?

In today’s blog, I’ll break down each stage of a toddler tantrum and what you should do at each stage. You’ll be on your way to calmly handling any toddler tantrum even when they pitch a fit for wanting to eat with the green plate instead of the red plate even though at first you did give them the green plate, but they said they wanted the red plate.

Stages of a Tantrum

Like any good book, a toddler’s tantrum follows the same elements of a plot.

First, we have the BEGINNING or EXPOSITION. This is when the reason for the tantrum is introduced. Now, sometimes the tantrum can end before it even started.

Maybe on this particular day they are able to handle it. Maybe you prepped for this kind of thing, and your toddler takes it in stride. That’s great! Although this…

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